tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6190519338493655360.post3782588609406339670..comments2023-10-22T04:38:58.496-07:00Comments on love.: Judgmental GivingCarrie Wilson Linkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01586157395539583862noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6190519338493655360.post-32395852661498981152013-09-27T15:16:09.715-07:002013-09-27T15:16:09.715-07:00I totally agree with fullsoulahead. I unfortunatel...I totally agree with fullsoulahead. I unfortunately found myself in that camp last night when I got up the courage to ask for help when I really needed it and was turned down. It's happened before with other people in my life, so I usually don't bother asking for help. Tanya Savkohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15296300747016479200noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6190519338493655360.post-78210082121057846722013-09-27T14:40:45.426-07:002013-09-27T14:40:45.426-07:00She is truly amazing and I love how clearly she ma...She is truly amazing and I love how clearly she makes her point on everything from shame to self-care to vulnerability. I am taking a class with a friend of hers right now on self-care for mothers and am surprised to discover that it is still so hard for me to ask for help. I agree with Michelle's notion, too, but I think even that has some congruence with Brene's point. I know in my case, if I dig deeply enough to discover why I think I've been hurt, it is essentially because I believed that I wasn't worthy of help which leads to her point that I must think that only some people are worthy of it and others aren't. Sad stuff when I think about it that way.kariohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10150537989886423212noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6190519338493655360.post-23592465451851779242013-09-27T12:56:16.375-07:002013-09-27T12:56:16.375-07:00So interesting. When I made the video "Extrem...So interesting. When I made the video "Extreme Parenting Video Project," the most common contribution was the message "Ask for help," or "Accept help." I'm not sure if this is a uniquely American phenomenon or not -- our culture of individuality certainly has its glories, but sometimes I wonder.Elizabethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03313726816776097840noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6190519338493655360.post-62254023551876977822013-09-27T11:41:07.075-07:002013-09-27T11:41:07.075-07:00I saw the show and agreed, with the caveat that so...I saw the show and agreed, with the caveat that sometimes we don't ask for help because we've been let down do many times, we are protecting ourselves from being hurt. fullsoulahead.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04053261523883986863noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6190519338493655360.post-13524702763418717912013-09-27T10:15:59.195-07:002013-09-27T10:15:59.195-07:00LOVE Brene Brown. Loved what she had to say about ...LOVE Brene Brown. Loved what she had to say about friends needing to deserve your vulnerability. You know she's doing a second Oprah appearance, week after next, I think...Courtneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11473314357893065334noreply@blogger.com